Hardwork Implies Success

                            HARD WORK IMPLIES SUCCESS

Everyone in this world wants to become a successful person. Everyone wants to live in a beautiful house, want a nice car and all the comforts of life, but without hard work.  Now the question arises that what is a success? And how we can become successful in our own field. Success or attainment is a journey of hard work. If we want to become a successful person we have to do hard work.

In simple words, we can say that success is a choice. If we choose to do work hard and hard, one day we will become successful.

I am a mathematics student. As you know, every person considers math as the toughest subject. But practice makes easy to each complexity. I also do hard work during M.Sc. I got up early in the morning and started doing math’s problem. When I solved the problems, then happiness sparked in my heart. This happiness motivated me to do more practice and more hard work. Finally, I did masters in mathematics with good percentage.

Always remember this journey is not easy. Sometimes we have to leave our comforts. There is no shortcut and substitute for hard work. We have full focus is on our goal. As a students need to work hard to get success, an employer has to do for getting higher rank in the job. All that persons who are in higher positions are due to hard working. During this journey, a little success motivates us to do hard work. Determination, dedication, positive attitude towards our goal removes every obstacle. Hard work is not only a matter of mind but also a matter of the heart.  Sometimes our mind tells us to leave this work, you will not. Only then our heart encourages you to do work.

 "There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure."

--Colin Powell

So do hard work and become a successful person.   

    

Love your Husband

                Love Your Husband Because…

Love.. everyone has own definition about love according to their experience in love. Some says love is life. Some says it is nothing, just waste of time. But actually love is that feeling that cannot describe in words. We can just feel it. Love has many kinds like parents love, boyfriend-girlfriend love, children love, friends love. But the most important kind is love with your partner or your soul mate. Every relation leaves you one day but your love your partner always stay with you till death. 

Every girl dreams about a perfect partner for her. As we know no one is perfect without God. So dreams like that have no meaning. Everyone one has some good or bad habits. But love does not depend upon these. Love is only depends upon faith and trust between you and your partner. Faith is the base of every relation. So love your partner with trust.

Now I am telling you a little story of my friend. Her name was Manju. She married to a well settled business man. And he was a kind man. She knew that her husband is nice guy. But she did not love him. She also not knew the reason behind this. She always talked to him rudely. But his husband never complained to her parents. He gave her time to accept him. He was caring and loves her a lot. He believed that someday his love definitely changed her and she will accept him. According to him love is waiting. After three month, she realized that she was wrong and a soft corner made in her heart for his husband. Now they live a happy married life. His husband proofs that love has no terms and conditions. If you love someone with pure heart, you will get your love.

Love has no bounds and limits. If your husband loves you truly then all fears of life have finished. So love your husband a lot. I love my husband. I always tell my husband that how much I love him He is my life. He cares like a father and loves like a boyfriend. He always inspires me to rise in life. He always walks with me side by side. He treats my family with love and respect he has for his own family. He is always ready to shield me from impairment. He is the only one who can make me laugh when I am feeling at my lowest.

In the darkness of the night, there is only me and you, We are woven together in our very own cocoon.

I feel your heartbeat against my chest,
I hold you tight as we both rest.

I start to drift off to sleep, and think of how I turned complete.

I am only complete when you are near,
To lose you someday is my biggest fear.

It takes two halves to make a whole,
My heart and yours we make one soul.

- Rahik Thamir -

How to stay always happy: Secret of Happiness

Secret of Happiness

Happiness looks cool to hear about it. We can speak much about this topic and also write about it. But the question is that are we happy? Is it up to speaking and writing only? Today’s life is so busy. Everyone is busy to earn money. No one has time for each other. Nowadays, we often hear that we have no time for the laugh. What will we end up our life in tension and make money? We have to change our thoughts.

Happiness is not ready made. Happiness is all around us and it is our own decision. We have to find it and feel all the time. Whatever be the conditions we have to think positive. The definition of happiness changes from person to person. The Student feels happiness when they got good marks. The employee feels happiness when they got promotions in their jobs. It cannot be earned. Happiness is love, our family, our friends, God. If we attached to all these then no need to find happiness. Happiest people are not getting more, are those giving more.

 I tell you about me. I find happiness from little things. If someone says bad things about me, I never feel bad. At home, I enjoy my work. I make others happy too. I feel happier at making others happy. Actually, secrets of happiness are inside you and how you would take situations.

I tell you some secrets of mine, hope so it will be beneficial for you.

Think positive

Give time to your family

Give time to your friends

Have faith in GOD. Whatever GOD does, is right for us.

To make others happy

Leave your happiness for the happiness of others

don’t be greedy

Don't lose confidence

Give and take cooperation

Thus, the result to above discussion is that life is too short. Choice is your that how to live your life.

How To Motivate Yourself

Motivation is derived from the word motive which means desire, needs, or wants within the individual. It makes a person move toward a goal. It helps us to attain our goal in every field of life.

Motivation is of two types:

• ·        Intrinsic : like learning, love, curiosity, love
• ·        Extrinsic : like money, rewards, badges,fear of

I am M.Sc (mathematics), B.Ed. When I started my career in teaching, there was a fear in my mind that how will I face the class? How will I teach them properly??

One day I sat on a chair and closed my eyes. I started thinking about my past achievements and my rewards. I started talking to my heart and my heart reminded me that it was my dream to become a successful teacher.

My heart asked me that why were you think negative. Be positive and go toward your goal.

There are some ways to motivate yourself:

•   Always be positive
•   Expel your fear out
•   Self-confidence
• Always ready to learn new things around you
• Practice towards your goal
• Challenge yourself
• Always remember this,
• Note to self:
• I am doing
• The best I can
• With what I have
• In this moment
• And that is all I can expect

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